Showing posts with label peace. Show all posts
Showing posts with label peace. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Growth and Peace - From the Same Root


"Attitude is a little thing that makes a big differene." - Sir Winston Churchill

 Positive reactions are usually much more encouraging than negative ones. Negative comments - even if they meant to improve the person - generate frustration or opposition, but rarely the will to improve. Positive ones on the other hand make the listener feel able to do well, and brings him to put more efforts. 


Another - not less important - effect of positive reactions is peace. Peace comes from relating to others by their positive sides. Everyone has postive and negative, good and bad character traits. If we want to, we can find good - as well as bad - in everyone. The question is: what do we decide to focus on? On the bad - that leads to lowering one's self-esteem, blocks their growth, and generates fights; or the good - which leads to encouraging the other one to be even better, and this way we make peace. It is a - not always easy - decision to make every time we open our mouth. The power of our words, and even our non-verbal actions are incredible. We can use them to change people in both directions, as-well-as to create war or peace. We should use them carefully!

Sunday, February 27, 2011

a very short wort (simple, but very important)

After the shacharis (morning prayer) we recite the quote from the Talmud: "Talmidei chachomim marbim sholaym boaylom", which means: "Knowers of the Talmud increase peace in the World.
How do they increase peace? My favorite interpretation is: One, who knows only a little, and sees someone doing something differently, than how he learned, starts arguing, and tells him, that he is doing wrong. If a person who knows a lot sees someone doing it differently, he doesn't argue, because he knows that what he knows is not the only possible way, the other one can be right too...

Saturday, February 26, 2011

About the changes


In the Middle East, often the most unexpected happen. Last month, old, well-established regimes fell. Fall of these dictators is not the most unexpected story, but the way they fell, was something, which was never predicted by any Western analysts (at least, I never read or heard such). The power of Tunisia's Ben Ali, and Egypt's Mubarak were not terminated by military intervention (like it happened in Iraq in 2003), nor by murder (like Mubarak's predecessor, Anwar Sadat), neither by a civil war or a coup, or any other known ways in the Middle East. They had to leave their office as a result of a way of angry protests, mostly by the masses of the young, unemployed population.

Watching, and reading the coverages, i didn't notice any burning American or Israeli flags, didn't see masked, armed terrorist-type marching. They were quite similar to the big protests in Europe: some objects caught fire, but the people behaved mostly peaceful (some cases, like beating and molesting Western journalists could make us worry though, but let's be optimistic at this point). The events were spread through internet social networks, such as Facebook, or Twitter. These sudden revolutions were carried out by a society of young Arabs, who use the internet, and see there the World outside, while they are fed up with their situation. Maybe the new generation of Arabs represents something, which has never existed before in these countries (or if it has, it had to hide): the Civil Society.
It is clear, that even if this society will not be ruling these countries, it will definitely be an important segment, which the new rulers (whomever they will be) will have to listen to.
Now, the question is: what do they (this new society) want? How do they think about politics? We don't know this yet. They will not even necessary be united in any idea, or goal. All we know is that they wanted change. But there is a chance now. Since they didn't show any signs of anti-Israel sentiment, hopefully they will not want to destroy the Jewish state, and they will not listen to the propaganda of hatred. They might say: "You, Jews can keep that twenty-something thousand square kilometers, we still have more than 10 million."

What I am saying, is of course not sure at this moment. The future is very uncertain now. We don't know, which direction these countries will turn after the fall of their previous dictators. I am afraid, even this new Arab society doesn't have any idea about it either. There is an unbelievable ideological vacuum there. But now, if we (Israel and the Westerners) communicate, and make our relations with the Arabs wisely, we can help them forming a new Middle East of peace, and mutual appreciation.

Friday, February 25, 2011

Lichtik ליכטיק: civ

Lichtik ליכטיק: civ: "In the Middle East, often the most unexpected happen. Last month, old, well-established regimes fell. Fall of these dictators is not the mos..."